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- ‘Morning After’ Regret – Fourth in a Series on Predatory Behavior
- BDSM vs Abuse
- BDSM vs Abuse by SirBamm!
- Defining It – First In a Series On Predatory Behavior
- Domestic Violence in the S/M Community (Pandora's Project)
- How to Avoid Problem People (expanded and edited)
- How to Avoid Problem People (original with discussion)
- How to Spot an Abuser
- Is It Abuse?
- Is It SM or Abuse?
- Kink Abuse
- Leather Leadership Conference SM vs Abuse Policy Statement
- Lesbian Sex Mafia – The Difference Between SM and Abuse
- Meet the Predators – from the Yes Means Yes blog (about rape)
- National Leather Association Domestic Violence Project (NLAIDV Project)
- Personal Responsibility – Third in a Series on Predatory Behavior
- Reactions to Abuse
- Sociopaths in the Scene
- The Differences Between BDSM and Abuse
- The War Against False Entitlement – Second in a Series on Predatory Behavior
- Unhealthy Control – Warning Signs of the Non Dominant
- What do they look like? – Fifth in a Series on Predatory Behavior
- What Is Partner Abuse? – from The Network/La Red
- WomensLaw.org
Abuse - General
- ! Domestic Violence and Abuse: Signs of Abuse and Abusive Relationships (HelpGuide.org)
- AARDVARC.org – An Abuse, Rape and Domestic Violence Aid and Resource Collection
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- Abusive Relationships – 23 Warning Signs
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- Adult Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse (various papers)
- Am I Being Abused? – various questions to ask yourself and major red flags
- Animal Abuse and Youth Violence
- Are You Dating a Loser? Identifying Losers, Controllers and Abusers in Relationships
- Are You Emotionally Abused?
- Articles About Abuse and Control
- Avoiding the Emotional Blackmailer
- Barriers To Leaving
- Blooming Lotus – Journey to Recovery From Childhood Abuse
- Bullying
- Characteristics of a Misogynist
- Definitions of Sexual Assault and Rape (nonlegal as well as legal)
- Emotional Abuse and Characteristics of Emotional Abusers
- Emotional Abusers
- Emotional Blackmailers: Jerks who Fuck with Your Mind – and Your Compassion
- Female Sex Offenders – Survivors' Safehouse
- Feministing
- Frequently Asked Questions About Verbal Abuse
- Gift From Within
- Health Effects of Family Violence
- How to Avoid Problem People (expanded and edited)
- How to Spot an Abuser
- How to Tell if They Are Not Changing Their Abusive Behavior
- Intimate Partner Abuse Against Men
- Love and Stockholm Syndrome: The Mystery of Loving an Abuser
- Meet the Predators – from the Yes Means Yes blog (about rape)
- Myths About Domestic Violence
- National Coalition Against Domestic Violence
- Parent Abuse by Teenage Children
- Parent Abuse by Teenage Children (overview)
- Pets As Pawns In Domestic Violence
- Purple Hearts 4 Butterflies
- RAINN – Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network
- Reactions to Abuse
- Relationship Red Flags
- Signs of Verbal and Emotional Abuse
- Signs That He Has Changed
- Signs That He Has Not Changed
- Spousal Abuse Facts
- The Abuse of Animals and Domestic Violence
- The Both/And of the Porn Wars
- The Cycle of Abuse
- The Manipulator Files
- The RED FLAG List – Warning signs that He (or She) is BAD NEWS…
- Understanding Abuse and Control
- Understanding the Victims of Spousal Abuse
- Various articles on abuse, dating, infidelity, and relationships
- Warning Signs of an Abuser (Mid-Valley Women's Crisis Service)
- Warning Signs of an Abusive Personality
- What are the red flags in a relationship a professional looks for?
- What Is Partner Abuse? – from The Network/La Red
- When Mr. Right Turns Out to Be Mr. Wrong (Romeo's Bleeding)
- Why Abusers Batter & Characteristics of Batterers
- WomensLaw.org
- You Think That You Are So Special… . . . that it won't happen to you. He'll be different with you.
Abuse - Getting Help & Staying Safe
- AARDVARC.org – An Abuse, Rape and Domestic Violence Aid and Resource Collection
- Barriers To Leaving
- BDSM vs Abuse by SirBamm!
- Domestic Violence Resources – all of US & some international
- Female Sex Offenders – Survivors' Safehouse
- How Can I Help My Friend?
- How to Help a Survivor
- How to Help An Assaulted Woman
- http://Computer&InternetSafety
- Internet and Email Safety – Covering Your Tracks
- Kink Aware Professionals
- Making a Safety Plan
- Manalive (and Womanalive)
- National Coalition Against Domestic Violence
- National Domestic Violence Hotline
- National Safecall Network
- Plan For Your Safety
- Victim Bashing
- WomensLaw.org
Abuse and the Law
Animal Abuse and Domestic Violence
BDSM - General
BDSM and the Law
BDSM Basics
Bestiality - Animal Sexual Abuse and Forced Bestiality
- Aftereffects of Animal Rape
- Animal Abuse and Youth Violence
- Animal Rape Links
- Animal Sexual Abuse Fact Sheet
- Bestiality aka Zoophilia
- Bestiality Statistics
- Blooming Lotus – Journey to Recovery From Childhood Abuse
- Diseases From Sex With Animals
- For survivors whose sexual abuse involved forced sexual contact with animals (Pandora's Project)
- Lecture addresses nature of bestiality: Criminology professor explains definition, criminality of bestiality
- Sexual Abuse of Animals Is Animal Cruelty
- StopBestiality
- The Abuse of Animals and Domestic Violence
- The International Handbook of Animal Abuse and Cruelty: Theory, Research, and Application
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- Under His Hand
- Walking the Labyrinth
- Zille de Feu's Fetish Fantasies
Children and Teens
- Abuse and Recovery Resources
- Abuse Articles
- Adult Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse (various papers)
- Animal Abuse and Youth Violence
- Blooming Lotus – Journey to Recovery From Childhood Abuse
- Child Abuse & Neglect (various papers)
- Child Sexual Abuse (variety of articles)
- Dating Violence
- Effects of Domestic Violence On Children
- Health Effects of Family Violence
- Parent Abuse by Teenage Children
- Parent Abuse by Teenage Children (overview)
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- ‘Morning After’ Regret – Fourth in a Series on Predatory Behavior
- Defining It – First In a Series On Predatory Behavior
- Personal Responsibility – Third in a Series on Predatory Behavior
- The War Against False Entitlement – Second in a Series on Predatory Behavior
- What do they look like? – Fifth in a Series on Predatory Behavior
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Monthly Archives: February 2011
Characteristics of the Narcissist
from the Narcissistic Abuse website: CHARACTERISTICS of the NARCISSIST and others with Personality Disorders These apply to males and females. 1. Self-centered. His needs are paramount. 2. No remorse for mistakes or misdeeds. 3. Unreliable, undependable. 4. Does not care … Continue reading
Posted in Abuse - General, Narcissism
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The Narcissistic Prince… Is He?
by Ann Bradley, http://www.narcissisticabuse.com How To Tell If the Prince is A Fraud It was all so perfect. He was Prince Charming, and you were the luckiest girl on earth. Until you weren’t. There were clues. Sometimes your intuition is … Continue reading
Posted in Abuse - General, Narcissism
Tagged abuse, abuser, control, manipulation, manipulator, Narcissism, narcissist, rage, sociopath, soul mate
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The 15 Characteristics of Verbal Abuse
via married2mrmean “As defined by Patricia Evans, in her book The Verbally Abusive Relationship – How to recognise it and how to respond. “I make reference to Patricia Evans often and decided I would write this entry, in case anyone … Continue reading
Posted in Abuse - General, Abuse - Verbal
Tagged anger, domestic violence, rage, verbal abuse
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The Abuse of Animals and Domestic Violence: A National Survey of Shelters for Women Who Are Battered
From a major national study undertaken to more fully assess the already known relationship between animal abuse (including bestiality) and domestic violence. Please read the full article as well as the excerpts below. “Although an age-old issue, the relation between … Continue reading
Posted in Abuse - General, Animal Abuse and Domestic Violence, Bestiality - Animal Sexual Abuse and Forced Bestiality
Tagged abuse, animal abuse, animal cruelty, animal sexual abuse, battered partner, battered women, bestiality, child abuse, child sexual abuse, domestic violence, forced bestiality, pedophile, pedophilia, pet abuse, sexual abuse
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Protected: Punishment – or Deal With Root Problem?
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Posted in Dominance, Submission
Tagged breach of trust, dominant, insecurity, master, punishment, slave, submissive, trust
Protected: Why I Am Currently Unpartnered – By Choice
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Posted in Personal
