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- What do they look like? – Fifth in a Series on Predatory Behavior
- What Is Partner Abuse? – from The Network/La Red
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- Am I Being Abused? – various questions to ask yourself and major red flags
- Animal Abuse and Youth Violence
- Are You Dating a Loser? Identifying Losers, Controllers and Abusers in Relationships
- Are You Emotionally Abused?
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- Blooming Lotus – Journey to Recovery From Childhood Abuse
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- Female Sex Offenders – Survivors' Safehouse
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- Gift From Within
- Health Effects of Family Violence
- How to Avoid Problem People (expanded and edited)
- How to Spot an Abuser
- How to Tell if They Are Not Changing Their Abusive Behavior
- Intimate Partner Abuse Against Men
- Love and Stockholm Syndrome: The Mystery of Loving an Abuser
- Meet the Predators – from the Yes Means Yes blog (about rape)
- Myths About Domestic Violence
- National Coalition Against Domestic Violence
- Parent Abuse by Teenage Children
- Parent Abuse by Teenage Children (overview)
- Pets As Pawns In Domestic Violence
- Purple Hearts 4 Butterflies
- RAINN – Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network
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- Spousal Abuse Facts
- The Abuse of Animals and Domestic Violence
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- The Cycle of Abuse
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- Understanding Abuse and Control
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- Warning Signs of an Abuser (Mid-Valley Women's Crisis Service)
- Warning Signs of an Abusive Personality
- What are the red flags in a relationship a professional looks for?
- What Is Partner Abuse? – from The Network/La Red
- When Mr. Right Turns Out to Be Mr. Wrong (Romeo's Bleeding)
- Why Abusers Batter & Characteristics of Batterers
- WomensLaw.org
- You Think That You Are So Special… . . . that it won't happen to you. He'll be different with you.
Abuse - Getting Help & Staying Safe
- AARDVARC.org – An Abuse, Rape and Domestic Violence Aid and Resource Collection
- Barriers To Leaving
- BDSM vs Abuse by SirBamm!
- Domestic Violence Resources – all of US & some international
- Female Sex Offenders – Survivors' Safehouse
- How Can I Help My Friend?
- How to Help a Survivor
- How to Help An Assaulted Woman
- http://Computer&InternetSafety
- Internet and Email Safety – Covering Your Tracks
- Kink Aware Professionals
- Making a Safety Plan
- Manalive (and Womanalive)
- National Coalition Against Domestic Violence
- National Domestic Violence Hotline
- National Safecall Network
- Plan For Your Safety
- Victim Bashing
- WomensLaw.org
Abuse and the Law
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- Sexual Abuse of Animals Is Animal Cruelty
- StopBestiality
- The Abuse of Animals and Domestic Violence
- The International Handbook of Animal Abuse and Cruelty: Theory, Research, and Application
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- ‘Morning After’ Regret – Fourth in a Series on Predatory Behavior
- Defining It – First In a Series On Predatory Behavior
- Personal Responsibility – Third in a Series on Predatory Behavior
- The War Against False Entitlement – Second in a Series on Predatory Behavior
- What do they look like? – Fifth in a Series on Predatory Behavior
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Ugh, sorry about the last totally disjointed post! I was making some notes for a new one, then the computer crashed, and figuring it would get saved as a draft, I promptly forgot to get back to it to be … Continue reading
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Awareness of BDSM Related Abuse Is Growing
Awareness of abuse in the kink community is growing, and I could not be more grateful. Sadly, my friend Mollena Williams, who recently stepped down from her post as International Ms Leather 2010, was raped and only recently spoke up … Continue reading
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Tagged abuse, abuser, BDSM, domestic violence, IMSL, International Ms Leather, Mollena Williams
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