About This Blog

This blog is about my thoughts, feelings, and opinions about BDSM and relationships, both in general, and based on my own experiences, preferences, and beliefs. It will contain both general information as well as personal rants and diatribes at times.  It’s part diary, part educational.

As it’s evolving, I’m finding it’s turning more into a general repository of information about abusive relationships, whether in the BDSM world or in general. While the line between healthy BDSM and abuse can be rather thin, no one deserves to be abused in any context.  It is my goal to make sure that people know the signs – and know how to get out of these relationships before they are destroyed by them.

I am still going to continue to post links, information, and other material regarding BDSM in general, and for newbies in particular, but that’s not going to be my entire focus now.

If you have constructive comments to make, and are willing to be polite in expressing disagreement or to engage in intelligent, respectful discussion and debate, then your comments are welcome. If you just want to argue or tell me I am wrong, I reserve the right to not post those comments.

If you are offended by anything I say, think you might be, or don’t like how I write, then this may not be the place for you. No one is forcing you to read this blog.


All writings on this site are copyright by kinkylittlegirl, unless otherwise noted, and may not be used in any way without express, written permission by anyone, for any reason.

9 Responses to About This Blog

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  3. ssn713 a.k.a. Triple X says:

    I’ve been a subscriber to your blog since days before Christmas. I enjoy your blog, though I do not live in the BDSM lifestyle. Your link to Dreamwalker was enlightening and I have included his blog on my blogroll. Thank you for your candid thoughts and soul searching introspect.

  4. Sparr says:

    What’s with the reference to Sydney University? I have seen this popping up in more of these boilerplate things lately, and can’t find any info online regarding it.

    • I found it on Fetlife. Apparently someone was doing something hinky and people started posting this. I gather that some time ago, someone said they’d been contacted and put without their consent into some kind of research paper.

  5. Annika Nash says:

    Thank you for this blog. It’s been 8 months since I left an abusive relationship that was supposed to have been based in consensual BDSM. My healing is becoming more complete all the time, but I’m simultaneously learning exactly how prevalent abuse really in BDSM. Your work is so very needed. Thank you, thank you.

  6. m says:

    i am a 30 yr old woman who has been in a 24/7 bdsm relationship for almost 9 months (with weekends off – its complicated in many, many ways). I am looking for some advice. I have read parts of your blog and respect your views. Would love to make friends. My email is freeopenspace at gmail dot com if you get a chance to write. I will look on this site for a contact email. Thanks for having this website.

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