Author Archives: kinkylittlegirl

Neutral Evil: The Problem With Refusing To Decide


Some ideas are powerful in human history, and keep coming up from people with very different belief systems in very different times and places: “We must take sides. Neutrality helps the oppressor, never the victim. Silence encourages the tormentor, never…

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A Letter to the New Girlfriend of Dr. Jeckyll and Mr. Hyde


On the new blog at kinkylittlegirl.net, also known as http://abuseandbdsm.com: A Letter to the New Girlfriend of Dr. Jeckyll and Mr. Hyde Comments here are now closed.  Please view the post in the new blog at the link above if … Continue reading

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Can You Face Her In the Morning (How to Assault People Less)


A great repost from a Fetlifer on how to avoid being the douchebag this blog warns people to watch out for.  You can read it on the new version of this blog. Please subscribe while you’re there! And thanks for … Continue reading

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It’s Got to Stop! No Matter the Price


The epidemic of domestic violence and sexual assault has got to stop – and the taboos that drive victims underground and silence them have simply got to be broken, no matter the cost that some of us will pay to … Continue reading

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Guilty Until Proven Innocent


Why do those of us who are abused have to change everything, why are our abusers believed and not us? Why are the victims of abuse so often revictimized repeatedly by the courts and everyone else? New post up at … Continue reading

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Guilty Until Proven Innocent


Why do those of us who are abused have to change everything, why are our abusers believed and not us? Why are the victims of abuse so often revictimized repeatedly by the courts and everyone else? New post up on … Continue reading

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Blaming the Victim of Lying About Harm Done to Her


I’ve got a new blog post up on the new version of my site at kinkylittlegirl.net about abusers blaming their victims of lying when they speak out about what happened to them. Please visit over there to read it and comment; … Continue reading

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Brand New Blog Site Up!


My new blog site is up and running!  It’s still under construction with kinks to work out, and my forest of links has not yet been ported over there, but the doors are open for business. Why the change?  Well, … Continue reading

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Test – This Is Only a Test


Test, test, to see if this comes through on Twitter and the new Abuse and BDSM page on Facebook.

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Sociopaths in the Scene


“What is a sociopath? “Someone without conscience, empathy, or remorse for having harmed someone by their words or deeds. They live to suit themselves and use people in the power games that form the core of their lives. These people … Continue reading

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