Category Archives: Abuse – General

Neutral Evil: The Problem With Refusing To Decide


Some ideas are powerful in human history, and keep coming up from people with very different belief systems in very different times and places: “We must take sides. Neutrality helps the oppressor, never the victim. Silence encourages the tormentor, never…

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A Letter to the New Girlfriend of Dr. Jeckyll and Mr. Hyde


On the new blog at kinkylittlegirl.net, also known as http://abuseandbdsm.com: A Letter to the New Girlfriend of Dr. Jeckyll and Mr. Hyde Comments here are now closed.  Please view the post in the new blog at the link above if … Continue reading

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It’s Got to Stop! No Matter the Price


The epidemic of domestic violence and sexual assault has got to stop – and the taboos that drive victims underground and silence them have simply got to be broken, no matter the cost that some of us will pay to … Continue reading

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Guilty Until Proven Innocent


Why do those of us who are abused have to change everything, why are our abusers believed and not us? Why are the victims of abuse so often revictimized repeatedly by the courts and everyone else? New post up at … Continue reading

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Guilty Until Proven Innocent


Why do those of us who are abused have to change everything, why are our abusers believed and not us? Why are the victims of abuse so often revictimized repeatedly by the courts and everyone else? New post up on … Continue reading

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Blaming the Victim of Lying About Harm Done to Her


I’ve got a new blog post up on the new version of my site at kinkylittlegirl.net about abusers blaming their victims of lying when they speak out about what happened to them. Please visit over there to read it and comment; … Continue reading

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Breaking the Cycle of Abuse


Originally posted on Framework:
By David Kelly, Special to The Times Reporting from Cleveland— Inside a stuffy Cleveland classroom, Tim Boehnlein explained the mechanics of domestic violence and then posed a question. “So why do women stay?” he asked his…

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20 Traits of the Malignant Narcissist


Oh, how much of this rings true!  I don’t know the original source of this, but it’s brilliant.   Learning about malignant narcissism helped me probably more than anything other than what I learned about sex addiction to understand what … Continue reading

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Blog Redesign!


It’s now live!  It still needs a lot of tweaking, but we now bring you a white background with black type that is so much easier on the eyes – and a readable size font.  Hopefully some other reorganizational features … Continue reading

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Protected: To My Ex


There is no excerpt because this is a protected post.

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