Category Archives: Personal

More on Rape and Abuse in the BDSM Community


More great thoughts from Kitty Stryker, and a whole host of commentary from other community members about the topic of rape, (sexual) assault, victim blaming, and tolerating abuse in the kink community, and what we should do about it.  If … Continue reading

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Emotional Damage


It is coming home for me more and more just how bad the emotional fallout has been for me thanks to X-man. I mean, I’ve known the damage that happened in the course of the relationship and its aftermath, but … Continue reading

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Protected: Why I Am Currently Unpartnered – By Choice


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Keeping Things From Past Relationships


Letters, photos, emails, gifts – do you keep these things once a relationship ends, or are you more the type to destroy and get rid of it all?  Why do you do what you do? I keep everything, and still … Continue reading

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Protected: Thank You


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Protected: In Review


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Myself Without You


“Myself Without You” sung by Reba McEntire When you walked out that door I was so sure my world had ended So sure I’d never get over you On that first night alone I cried so many tears it scared … Continue reading

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Protected: Gypped


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Protected: Further Revelations – and Freedom In Sight


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Protected: Recovery


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