Category Archives: Rants

Protected: Breaking the Rules


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Honesty and Lying in Relationships


What are your expectations from a partner regarding honesty vs lying?  Do you think that lying is ever OK? ================================================ I personally  expect full openness and honesty – and I give it in return.  Unfortunately, I once had the experience … Continue reading

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Dominants Coming Through on Their Word


@Xinergy said on Fetlife: The Dominant failing to come through with what they say they are going to do is devastating to the submissive. The submissive is in this lifestyle because they need that comfort and safety. They need to … Continue reading

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