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There. I’ve said it. The words that will earn me the hatred of a lot of the BDSM world. Words that are anathema to this subculture. Thinking that runs counter to the mass-think of our counterculture, that threatens all kinds … Continue reading
I received a private message from someone who was commenting on how BDSM per se doesn’t inspire abuse, but that “…people watch vids on the internet, get it into their heads that subs are just human punching bags that will … Continue reading
By Deborah Teramis Christian A submissive explores the piquant terrain of the surrendering of power. It is not surprising that folks engaged in D/s often spend a fair amount of energy determining what are the appropriate bounds of submission and … Continue reading