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- Abuse Among the Kinky, part 1: 6 Ways to Think About Abuse
- Abuse Among the Kinky, Part 2: 10 Things to Do to Reduce Abusive Behaviour In the S/m World*
- Abuse Articles
- Abuse vs Consensual BDSM (Fetish Information Exchange)
- Abuse vs Consensual BDSM/Erotic Power Exchange
- Am I Being Abused? – various questions to ask yourself and major red flags
- ‘Morning After’ Regret – Fourth in a Series on Predatory Behavior
- BDSM vs Abuse
- BDSM vs Abuse by SirBamm!
- Defining It – First In a Series On Predatory Behavior
- Domestic Violence in the S/M Community (Pandora's Project)
- How to Avoid Problem People (expanded and edited)
- How to Avoid Problem People (original with discussion)
- How to Spot an Abuser
- Is It Abuse?
- Is It SM or Abuse?
- Kink Abuse
- Leather Leadership Conference SM vs Abuse Policy Statement
- Lesbian Sex Mafia – The Difference Between SM and Abuse
- Meet the Predators – from the Yes Means Yes blog (about rape)
- National Leather Association Domestic Violence Project (NLAIDV Project)
- Personal Responsibility – Third in a Series on Predatory Behavior
- Reactions to Abuse
- Sociopaths in the Scene
- The Differences Between BDSM and Abuse
- The War Against False Entitlement – Second in a Series on Predatory Behavior
- Unhealthy Control – Warning Signs of the Non Dominant
- What do they look like? – Fifth in a Series on Predatory Behavior
- What Is Partner Abuse? – from The Network/La Red
- WomensLaw.org
Abuse - General
- ! Domestic Violence and Abuse: Signs of Abuse and Abusive Relationships (HelpGuide.org)
- AARDVARC.org – An Abuse, Rape and Domestic Violence Aid and Resource Collection: Male Victims
- Abuse and Recovery Resources
- Abuse Articles
- Abuse Signs and Look Out For Men Who…
- Abuse Types
- Abused or Codependant?
- Abusive Cycle – for abusers and victims
- Abusive Relationships – 23 Warning Signs
- ACADV Links to Other Internet Resources
- Adult Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse (various papers)
- Am I Being Abused? – various questions to ask yourself and major red flags
- Animal Abuse and Youth Violence
- Are You Dating a Loser? Identifying Losers, Controllers and Abusers in Relationships
- Are You Emotionally Abused?
- Articles About Abuse and Control
- Avoiding the Emotional Blackmailer
- Barriers To Leaving
- Blooming Lotus – Journey to Recovery From Childhood Abuse
- Bullying
- Characteristics of a Misogynist
- Definitions of Sexual Assault and Rape (nonlegal as well as legal)
- Emotional Abuse and Characteristics of Emotional Abusers
- Emotional Abusers
- Emotional Blackmailers: Jerks who Fuck with Your Mind – and Your Compassion
- Female Sex Offenders – Survivors' Safehouse
- Feministing
- Frequently Asked Questions About Verbal Abuse
- Gift From Within
- Health Effects of Family Violence
- How to Avoid Problem People (expanded and edited)
- How to Spot an Abuser
- How to Tell if They Are Not Changing Their Abusive Behavior
- Intimate Partner Abuse Against Men
- Love and Stockholm Syndrome: The Mystery of Loving an Abuser
- Meet the Predators – from the Yes Means Yes blog (about rape)
- Myths About Domestic Violence
- National Coalition Against Domestic Violence
- Parent Abuse by Teenage Children
- Parent Abuse by Teenage Children (overview)
- Pets As Pawns In Domestic Violence
- Purple Hearts 4 Butterflies
- RAINN – Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network
- Reactions to Abuse
- Relationship Red Flags
- Signs of Verbal and Emotional Abuse
- Signs That He Has Changed
- Signs That He Has Not Changed
- Spousal Abuse Facts
- The Abuse of Animals and Domestic Violence
- The Both/And of the Porn Wars
- The Cycle of Abuse
- The Manipulator Files
- The RED FLAG List – Warning signs that He (or She) is BAD NEWS…
- Understanding Abuse and Control
- Understanding the Victims of Spousal Abuse
- Various articles on abuse, dating, infidelity, and relationships
- Warning Signs of an Abuser (Mid-Valley Women's Crisis Service)
- Warning Signs of an Abusive Personality
- What are the red flags in a relationship a professional looks for?
- What Is Partner Abuse? – from The Network/La Red
- When Mr. Right Turns Out to Be Mr. Wrong (Romeo's Bleeding)
- Why Abusers Batter & Characteristics of Batterers
- WomensLaw.org
- You Think That You Are So Special… . . . that it won't happen to you. He'll be different with you.
Abuse - Getting Help & Staying Safe
- AARDVARC.org – An Abuse, Rape and Domestic Violence Aid and Resource Collection: Male Victims
- Barriers To Leaving
- BDSM vs Abuse by SirBamm!
- Domestic Violence Resources – all of US & some international
- Female Sex Offenders – Survivors' Safehouse
- How Can I Help My Friend?
- How to Help a Survivor
- How to Help An Assaulted Woman
- http://Computer&InternetSafety
- Internet and Email Safety – Covering Your Tracks
- Kink Aware Professionals
- Making a Safety Plan
- Manalive (and Womanalive)
- National Coalition Against Domestic Violence
- National Domestic Violence Hotline
- National Safecall Network
- Plan For Your Safety
- Victim Bashing
- WomensLaw.org
Abuse and the Law
Animal Abuse and Domestic Violence
BDSM - General
BDSM and the Law
BDSM Basics
Bestiality - Animal Sexual Abuse and Forced Bestiality
- Aftereffects of Animal Rape
- Animal Abuse and Youth Violence
- Animal Rape Links
- Animal Sexual Abuse Fact Sheet
- Bestiality aka Zoophilia
- Bestiality Statistics
- Blooming Lotus – Journey to Recovery From Childhood Abuse
- Diseases From Sex With Animals
- For survivors whose sexual abuse involved forced sexual contact with animals (Pandora's Project)
- Lecture addresses nature of bestiality: Criminology professor explains definition, criminality of bestiality
- Sexual Abuse of Animals Is Animal Cruelty
- StopBestiality
- The Abuse of Animals and Domestic Violence
- The International Handbook of Animal Abuse and Cruelty: Theory, Research, and Application
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- Charlie Glickman – Adult Sexuality Education
- Devastating Yet Inconsequential
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- Kink In Motion
- Kink On Tap
- Libida
- Sadistic Excess
- Sayninee
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- The Eroticist
- The Iron Gate
- The Mistress Manual
- The Perverted Negress
- Under His Hand
- Walking the Labyrinth
- Zille de Feu's Fetish Fantasies
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- Animal Abuse and Youth Violence
- Blooming Lotus – Journey to Recovery From Childhood Abuse
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- Child Sexual Abuse (variety of articles)
- Dating Violence
- Effects of Domestic Violence On Children
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- Parent Abuse by Teenage Children (overview)
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- ‘Morning After’ Regret – Fourth in a Series on Predatory Behavior
- Defining It – First In a Series On Predatory Behavior
- Personal Responsibility – Third in a Series on Predatory Behavior
- The War Against False Entitlement – Second in a Series on Predatory Behavior
- What do they look like? – Fifth in a Series on Predatory Behavior
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Honesty and Lying in Relationships
What are your expectations from a partner regarding honesty vs lying? Do you think that lying is ever OK? ================================================ I personally expect full openness and honesty – and I give it in return. Unfortunately, I once had the experience … Continue reading →
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